Find Your Path

Everyone’s pathway to pleasure is uniquely their own. Some of us like to venture down side-roads, finding unexpected surprises along the way. Others like to stay on the beaten path, following a more direct route. Sometimes, life experiences, such as relationships, grief, trauma, or stress, lead us to a dead end or leave us feeling as if the path has been washed out from beneath our feet. We may feel lost, with no solid footing, afraid of making a wrong turn and uncertain of how to regain our path. Other times, we may feel content with our journey but wonder if we might be missing something truly spectacular.

And just as each journey is unique, so is the destination. Indeed, our perceptions of pleasure—what it is, who deserves it, how it is achieved, how socially acceptable it is—are affected by our relationships, the media we consume, social norms, and personal experiences.

My goal is to empower you along your journey by helping you to identify new and creative ways to find pleasure in your life. Wherever you are along your journey, whatever your pathway looks like or leads to, I invite you to continue exploring—you never know what you may discover.

My Story

Kristy Lowther, MSW (they/them) is a Sexual Empowerment Coach who has spent over twenty years studying sexuality and gender. Kristy is a queer, non-binary, white, visibly able-bodied individual who recognizes the importance of creating spaces that intentionally center underrepresented voices. Kristy is passionate about helping people show up authentically and is dedicated to empowering individuals through education, coaching, and transformational experiences. Kristy is a certified Bodysex® Facilitator, trained in the Somatica® Coaching Method, a guest facilitator for the Body Electric School, and a guest instructor at Georgetown’s School for Continuing Studies. They obtained a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration, a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology with an emphasis on sexuality and gender studies, and a Master’s in Social Work, all from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. They are also a Certified Diversity Executive (CDE®) and have an Executive Certificate in Diversity, Equity & Inclusion from Georgetown University.

My Inspiring Mentors

Carlin Ross, Kristy, and Betty Dodson   New York City, Bodysex May 2016

Carlin Ross, Kristy, and Betty Dodson
Bodysex Certification Circle
New York City, October 2016

 
 
Kristy and Betty Dodson   Betty’s 90th Birthday Retreat Menla, July 2019

Kristy and Betty Dodson
Betty’s 90th Birthday Retreat
Menla, July 2019